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Their First Banana Hammock

October 21, 2011

From time to time, my daughters and I check out new music on iTunes. Well, the other day, we started with looking to see what was new on the Top Charts. That day, the song that was number one on the Singles Chart for Music Videos was LMFAO’s “Sexy And I Know It”. In iTunes [...]

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Art or Porn: Seattle Erotic Art Festival 2011

June 18, 2011

Having recovered from the all-night debauchery that is The Seattle Erotic Art Festival, I’m doing some Monday Morning Art-Curating. I am trying to remember how many times I said, “that’s not art, that’s boring porn.” Too many to look back at SEAF and consider it an Art Festival. But damn, it was a really fun [...]

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Porn, Body Image and Buff Women

June 18, 2011

I love bodies. I love both men’s and women’s bodies. I love my body. I have always loved Stoya’s body, hers especially. (And her amazingly pale skin, dark hair, pouty lips…. ) And, like many women, I look at all the bodies in the media, and I never see my own body. I often joke [...]

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Porn and Realism

March 22, 2011

I received a comment from a dad who had a question about porn and the absence of realism. He writes: I am the father of three boys, 16, 15 and 10. The older two esp. are filled with the usual crap that comes from middle school and high school boyland. The only thing I have [...]

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A Lasting Impression

February 22, 2011

I wanted to add something to the Core Erotic Theme (CET)/our children developing ideas around sex and sexuality while they are young topic. A male friend of mine and I were having a discussion about porn and erotic literature.  We just recently uncovered that something he used to do as a tween has had a [...]

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This Is Not Your Mother’s Porn – Part 2

February 22, 2011

Let’s take another look at Fantasy & Pleasure – NSFW From Part 1: Today is Lady Porn Day.  It is a blog project that encourages women to think about porn, in a world where this remains taboo, in a world where many girls still expect their first orgasm to come from someone other than themselves. [...]

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This Is Not Your Mother’s Porn – Part 1

February 22, 2011

Today is Lady Porn Day.  It is a blog project that encourages women to think about porn, in a world where this remains taboo, in a world where many girls still expect their first orgasm to come from someone other than themselves. When I bring up the topic of porn to my girlfriends I get [...]

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Why Porn Sucks (And Not Well.)

January 12, 2011

“Watch lots of porn” is pretty high on the list of things that sound like a good job description, until you have to do it. I realize that now, after watching hours of porn in an attempt to curate a collection that will get women hot and horny and happy. It’s not working, even for [...]

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I Don’t Like Porn

January 11, 2011

What’s your take on porn?  Here’s why I ask.  I have never been in to porn, but I’ve been dating a guy for a while – a couple years – and he used to like porn, and hasn’t really watched it since we’ve been together, or says he hasn’t anyway.  But now he said he [...]

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