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The Clitoris

April 19, 2012

What is it about the clitoris that really get’s people going in the pleasurable sense and in the “we can’t talk about THAT!” way? Not only is the clitoris an amazing part of a woman’s body, but it is also a very important aspect of many women’s sexual satisfaction. Why is the clitoris so amazing? [...]

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Why Would Anyone Fake An Orgasm?

April 5, 2012

Why in the world would anyone want to fake an orgasm? Some do it to get out of a bad sex session, think that it will please their partner, don’t want to hurt their partners’ feelings, or maybe the orgasm just wasn’t going to happen. You may think that it’s no big deal and that [...]

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Tell Me How You Like It, Baby

February 25, 2012

Honestly, sometimes people say the stupidest things when it comes to sex. And I don’t mean “oh, that’s right baby, you’re fucking my pussy, that’s right, your cock is in my pussy,” or the other inane gibberish that modern porn may have us think is “sex talk.” (I’ve said it before and I’ll say it [...]

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“O” Relax!

June 30, 2011

I  recently found myself discussing female orgasm with two guy friends. More specifically, my orgasms. Even more specifically, my lack thereof. It was a deeply personal and very detailed conversation, and it ended with one of them saying, “you really need to write this.” And my saying, as I often have, “I just don’t know [...]

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Faking It, Honestly?

June 23, 2011

I have been dating a guy for a while, and we have great sex. Thing is, when I started dating him, I didn’t think it was going to go anywhere, just be casual sex. However, things are great, like really great, and we’ve been together for 7 months now. Great, right? No. The problem is [...]

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Safeword Role-Play (or Intro To S/M For The “Vanilla” Couple)

March 18, 2011

A girlfriend of mine (and fellow mother) related a story to me about a recent sexual encounter she recently had. **Explicit content** –  relatively speaking  :) She and her partner were having sex one evening.  The two of them proceeded to get a little rougher in their play than normal. It was at the point [...]

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