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I Love My Boyfriend, And This Other Guy…

June 15, 2011

Here’s my problem. I have been in a relationship with a really nice guy for 4 years now. We are good friends, we have lots in common and get along really well. He is super sweet, the ice to my fire. He’s just fine, nothing at all wrong with him. However… Recently I came into [...]

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Do you want to “Cop” a feel?: Fantasy Role-Play isn’t against the Law

March 25, 2011

Recently I was showing affection to my partner in a parking lot– get your mind out of the gutter, we were just kissing in public. As we were kissing a police cruiser drove up and parked next to our car. I was joking with my partner that we were going to get a ticket for [...]

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We’ve Come a Long Way Baby… or Not?

March 3, 2011

All of the opposition to comprehensive sex education and the attacks on sexual health and women’s reproductive rights from the Conservatives or “Pro-life-rs” surrounding the debate over funding Planned Parenthood reminds me of the beginning of chapter 6 from Judith Levine’s book Harmful To Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children from Sex. Abstinence education is [...]

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A Lasting Impression

February 22, 2011

I wanted to add something to the Core Erotic Theme (CET)/our children developing ideas around sex and sexuality while they are young topic. A male friend of mine and I were having a discussion about porn and erotic literature.  We just recently uncovered that something he used to do as a tween has had a [...]

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