Chelsea Holland
BIO
Dr. Chelsea Holland is a Doctor of Human Sexuality based in Colorado. With her focus on sex education, sex counseling and writing she helps individuals, partners, and groups regardless of their sexual orientation, sexual interests, ability, and age with concerns and questions around their sexuality and relationships. …more…
ARTICLES
The Business of Your Relationship It can often be easy to get caught on the how-do-I-make-my-sex-life-better boat when it comes to your relationship. Because sex is what typically separates our romantic relationships from those with our friends, we want to make sure our sex life is all that it can be. Although I strongly believe that focusing on your intimate time in the bedroom (or wherever your sexcapades may be) is important to keep your relationship hot and desirable, it is also important to not neglect the “business” side of your relationship. …more…
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Crystal Ball One of the common myths about relationships is that sexual behavior should come naturally. Further, there is often the assumption that if your partner really truly cared about you, s/he should know exactly what turns you on without you even saying anything. According to a small poll of mine, when respondents were asked if they tell their partner what turns them on in bed, 85% said it depends on the activity, 28% said most of the time, 14% said it depends on the person, and 14% said only to guide their partner when they were lost (*percentages do not equal 100 because respondents were able to choose more than one response). ...read more…
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Don’t Yuck Someone Else’s Yum Have you ever experienced a moment when you’re at a restaurant with someone and they order food you think is disgusting? You think, “How on earth can they like that? YUCK!” Personally, I cringe when someone orders something with olives. I can’t stand the taste. I tried an olive again a month ago just to see if I still hated them, you know ‘because tastes change’. Nope, still hate them. Strawberries on the other hand … …read more…
