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Fifty Shades of Sexual Experience

September 18, 2012

When someone says they are straight, what do you assume that means about their sexual experiences? What about when someone says they are gay or bisexual? In an effort to demonstrate the continuum of sexual experience, Dr. Alfred Kinsey developed a heterosexual-homosexual rating scale back in 1948. Using the following definitions, Kinsey considered a 1-2 [...]

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Win a Trojan Vibrations Vibe!

June 4, 2012

Last week, Lanae and I did a Sexxx Talk Radio show all about sex toys with Megan Andelloux. To say it was fun is an understatement, and you should TOTALLY listen to it, NOW. Well, after you read this short post and share a story with us, which you can do anonymously. ” You see, [...]

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Masturbation May Should Be Every Day!

May 22, 2012

Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of  mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the [...]

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The Clitoris

April 19, 2012

What is it about the clitoris that really get’s people going in the pleasurable sense and in the “we can’t talk about THAT!” way? Not only is the clitoris an amazing part of a woman’s body, but it is also a very important aspect of many women’s sexual satisfaction. Why is the clitoris so amazing? [...]

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Dossie Easton’s Personal Sexual Inventory

April 11, 2012

We are honored to have permission to offer you Dossie Easton’s Your Sexual Inventory survey. This was originally conceived by Dr. Easton for publishing in The Ethical Slut. It is not in the current edition – which we think is crazy. Of all the books on our collective book shelves, this is one that we [...]

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Why Would Anyone Fake An Orgasm?

April 5, 2012

Why in the world would anyone want to fake an orgasm? Some do it to get out of a bad sex session, think that it will please their partner, don’t want to hurt their partners’ feelings, or maybe the orgasm just wasn’t going to happen. You may think that it’s no big deal and that [...]

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The Business of Your Relationship – Best Friend or Enemy?

March 28, 2012

It can often be easy to get caught on the how-do-I-make-my-sex-life-better boat when it comes to your relationship. Because sex is what typically separates our romantic relationships from those with our friends, we want to make sure our sex life is all that it can be. Although I strongly believe that focusing on your intimate [...]

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Don’t Yuck Someone Else’s Yum

March 15, 2012

Have you ever experienced a moment when you’re at a restaurant with someone and they order food you think is disgusting? You think, “How on earth can they like that? YUCK!” Personally, I cringe when someone orders something with olives. I can’t stand the taste. I tried an olive again a month ago just to [...]

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Tell Me How You Like It, Baby

February 25, 2012

Honestly, sometimes people say the stupidest things when it comes to sex. And I don’t mean “oh, that’s right baby, you’re fucking my pussy, that’s right, your cock is in my pussy,” or the other inane gibberish that modern porn may have us think is “sex talk.” (I’ve said it before and I’ll say it [...]

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The Gay Marriage Debate

June 24, 2011

Getting To The Altar: A Long & Complicated Relationship THANKS to NY passing legislation last night, this is now inaccurate by 1 state. And we’re happy to be out of date, if it means the times are finally changing! In recent years, the debate over same-sex marriage has grown from an issue that occasionally arose [...]

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