Sex Ed 101

Masturbation May Should Be Every Day!

May 22, 2012

Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of  mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the [...]

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NSFW: 3 Questions For Me From A 28 y.o. Man…

December 12, 2011

Hello! I saw your name on facebook and since you are a sex educator I wanted to ask you 3 questions? 1.) Is it normal for a guy to want to watch a girl take a shit? 2.) Is it normal for a guy to eat a girls’ butthole out? 3.) Why does religion (especially [...]

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PDA – Parental Displays of Affection

October 19, 2011

Once people become parents, a lot of us generally don’t allow ourselves to be sexual beings anymore.  Why is that? When we were young and as we grew up, some of us desexualized our own parents (and sometimes our siblings as well).  That is, we removed all aspects of thinking of them as being or [...]

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Self-Love Part 2: How Can Something So Good, Really Be So “Wrong”?

October 18, 2011

Ok, I have a confession to make. Writing the blog entry I did on Masturbation a year ago was so incredibly difficult for me. I realized before I hit send that I had bitten off all my fingernails and tugged at my eyelashes. What is up with THAT?  It really makes me wonder what my mom [...]

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If she’s not having fun, you have to stop

October 14, 2011

My training as a sexologist makes me aware of people, things, and situations around me that have a sexual component to them.  The latest is a situation that I’ve observed for a while now and I could not put my finger on it as to why it concerned me. Let me explain: I have a [...]

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“Shhh! There Are Children Present.”

June 20, 2011

A funny thing happened at yoga. I’ve been taking Marcia (9) and Cindy (7) to yoga with me. I agree with author Peggy Orenstein that it’s a wonderful practice for young girls. My daughters seem to like it and the other participants seem to enjoy the youth factor and aren’t the least bit curmudgeonly… or [...]

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