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Polysaturated: Too Much Is Too Much I’m in a long term open relationship with two women. I am engaged to marry one of them, however that relationships has been rocky for a while. However, I met a new woman, with whom I feel very connected and want to have a relationship.
I Don’t Like Make-Up Sex: My partner and I sometimes have long, uncomfortable, late-night talks about whether or not I’m still sexually attracted to her. (I am.) I explain that while I absolutely AM attracted to her, my sex drive isn’t the same as it was when everything was fresh and new and we were just learning each others’ bodies, etc… and while we BOTH do get to a stable point where everything feels (calmly, lovingly, comfortably) resolved, there is one short-term problem. She usually wants to have sex directly afterward as a form of physical catharsis.
I Love My Boyfriend, And This Other Guy Too: Here’s my problem. I have been in a relationship with a really nice guy for 4 years now. We are good friends, we have lots in common and get along really well. He is super sweet, the ice to my fire. He’s just fine, nothing at all wrong with him.
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