Mission & Other Positions

by Not So Secret

Mission

To empower women to discover and enjoy their own sexuality in a way that is playful, fulfilling, authentic, consensual and safe.

Vision

We envision, and want to help create, a world in which all people are free to express their sexuality without fear of violence, judgement, loss and bodily harm. We’re starting with women, but we hope to inspire conversations in many ways and places, with many groups of people, that will help people feel safe and joyful about their own sex lives. Hopefully, then, we’ll all be less concerned with what other consenting adults are doing in their private lives.

Reason

We believe this matters because people’s sexuality is in the core of their being. When they feel fear and shame about their sexuality, then their core is filled with fear and shame. It is impossible to be happy and productive when you are filled with fear and shame.

We believe that all people want the same thing: to feel loved, accepted, fulfilled and safe. Although our sexuality manifests with wild diversity, our core needs as human beings are alarmingly similar.

We have spoken with too many people who feel alone and frightened. Who feel like they are somehow different than everyone else. We’re tired of people whispering in shame. So we’re talking. Openly and joyfully.

Fantasies

World peace, of course. And great sex for all. Lots of it.

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