How To Eat Her Pussy

by Not So Secret

in How To,Information

Yum.  I’m a woman, obviously, so I’m all distracted at the thought of writing this, please forgive if I get flustered.

This is it.  Seriously.  For many women, if you can do this well, you can have anything you want.  Problem is, it’s confusing in there. So I think a lot of people – men and women alike – are totally intimidated by the prospect of eating out a woman, because they are all SOOOOOOO different, and it really isn’t as straight forward as guys.  But, it isn’t all that hard either.  Especially if you BOTH promise to communicate about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you want.  That communication can make all the difference in the world.

And a little anatomical background. The clit is, in many ways, like a little tiny penis. Although the pearly little head of the clit is the most sensitive part, there is a shaft hidden under the hood as well, and it likes to be rubbed and stroked just like the shaft of a guy’s penis. Don’t ignore it.

And with that said, let’s dive in:

  • Women are shy about their bodies, even when we’re in great shape.  Tell us you like it and want it, and even what you want to do with it, and we’ll start relaxing.  We’re verbal creatures, tell us we’re hot, and we’ll feel hot.
  • Are you a novice down here, and this one looks different than the last one you saw?  They’re all different.  Just like penises, they all come in different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors.  Doesn’t mean a thing.
  • PLEASE make sure that your fingers or tongue, whatever you’re using, is wet.  Use flavored lubes if you have to, your own saliva, her own juices, whatever, but if it’s dry, it will hurt.
  • Get to know it before you really do anything.  Just using your fingers or the tip of your tongue, pry the lips open a bit, see how they’re configured.  Look for her clit, which will probably still be under it’s little hood, listen to the cues she gives you as you gently touch different places, she’ll tell you what she likes, even if she can’t get a word out.
  • We like to be teased too.  GOD!  That tongue around our inner thigh, the divet between thigh and pussy, the base of our lips, even travel up to the navel.  Tease us. Nuzzle in. breathe on it, kiss it, all without really going in, mmmmm.
  • But, when enough is enough, it’s time to get busy.
  • Put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then not so gently.
  • Use your tongue to separate her lips and run your tongue up and down between the layers of flesh.
  • Gently (or not so gently) spread her legs apart with your hands. (Some women like a gentle hand, others like to be manhandled, pay attention, she’ll let you know which one she is.)
  • Tongue-fuck her. Literally pretend your tongue is a cock and thrust it in and out, but, unlike a cock, you can rotate in little circles inside of her.  A good tease.
  • Bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. It’s not easy for anyone to find, but should be a nice little “pearl” under there, and flick at it gently with your tongue. Every now and then, press harder and just hold it down like a button.  Then back to flicking. Now, women vary greatly here.  Some like to be flicked hard, others really gently.  Honestly, you have to ask.  And it changes during the course of things, just ask.  Or let her tell you – sometimes we like to be bossy.  (For some reason, the word “harder” can make one feel hotter.”)
  • When she’s totally worked up, try pursing your lips and actually sucking on her clit, almost like you’d have her suck on your cock (if, that is, you are a guy.) Gently, quickly, in and out.  Sometimes that’s too much to handle, but sometimes it’s awesome.
  • Unlike men, most women do really well with repetitive action, so if you’re really on to something, don’t feel the need to change it up too much.
  • If you can pull it off, and she can handle it, try finger fucking her at the same time. And if you’re really adept, you can probably find that magic G-spot inside (up and in, towards the front, just under the belly button, usually.)

Women cum differently than men.  For many women, and orgasm is a very protracted experience, and it’s nice to be guided through it with gentle lips and fingers, easing off the pressure and speed until we just kind of collapse.  But, the good news is, for women, this is just the beginning.  Now we’re ready to fuck, ‘cause it’s all wet and swollen and, well, ready for something to cum on in.

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